Playful Teasing and Flirting for Singles on Adult Phone Chatlines

When talking to new people on adult phone chatlines, using a simple push and pull flirting technique can help enhance the conversation. It breaks the ice and makes chatting with singles more fun . And sets stage to take things further. Whether you are up for a flirty chat, casual date or wild phone sex, try flirting and teasing to heat things up on the phone. The top adult phone chatlines are private, safe and instant. And ladies, it’s free! so, call in get into some naughty conversation with tons of great genuine guys nearby!

Use Playful Teasing to Your Advantage

Tease them a little. For instance, When a cutie you’re talking to on a chatline first tells you their name, say, “What?” so they have to lean in to repeat himself. Then say, “What?” again with a smile. You’ll break the ice with your playful joke. People want what they can’t have, and a little playful teasing shows that you’re interested, but also draws people in. This simple technique called “pushing and pulling,” where, like a kitten with a string, you dangle a compliment within reach, then pull it back.

Here are more instances of using a playful teasing in conversation

“You’re the coolest person I’ve met… at this bar, anyway.” “Holy crap, you really are such a nerd, it’s adorable!” “It’s a shame you seem like a nice person, you’re giving me the most inappropriate ideas.” “You’re awesome, I never meet people like you; get away from me, I just can’t talk to you.” “We’re never going to get along, we’re too similar.”

The key here is to absolutely avoid negging or backhanded compliments, like “you’ve got a great smile, even with those teeth.” Keep it playful, friendly, and make it abundantly clear that you’re teasing. Do it with a big smile, have fun (and be self-deprecating when it’s right) and while you’re at it, use your teasing as an opportunity to do some flirty touching.

The key good flirting is about riffing and playing off what one another says. Don’t force a change in the conversation, and keep things light. Also keep in mind that some people don’t like teasing or witty banter, so be ready to switch gears. If you say something unfunny or upsetting, apologize and change the topic. Don’t make it about you, and don’t shift the blame on them, like “I’m sorry you were offended.” Acknowledge that you messed up and move on to a happier subject. When in doubt, you can just be a great listener. It gives people a chance to open up about themselves, and gives you a chance to relax.

Pushing And Pulling

The human psyche is perverse; we wan’t what we can’t have. We instinctively chase what runs from us. When things come too easily, we question it or take it for granted, but we value the things we had to work for. And we find unpredictability attractive. It gets boring and we don’t want it around. The idea of pushing and pulling is to deliberately send mixed signals… “Go away a little closer”, in essence. They keep people on their toes, because they don’t know what comes next.

Pushing and pulling in a flirting context is a matter of balance; giving something and taking it away at the same time. It’s a teasing insult followed by a compliment, or a compliment followed by a disqualifier. The effect is a little like a kitten with a string; you dangle the complement within reach, then pull it back. End result: the kitten becomes more determined to catch the string. So it goes with flirting.

“You’re the coolest person I’ve met… at this bar, anyway.” “Holy crap, you really are such a nerd, it’s adorable!” “It’s a shame you seem like a nice person, you’re giving me the most inappropriate ideas.” “You’re awesome, I never meet people like you; get away from me, I just can’t talk to you.” “We’re never going to get along, we’re too similar.”

This isn’t “negging” or backhanded compliments. You don’t want to say things like “You’ve got a great smile… even with those teeth,” “Your nails are great… are they real?” Much like with teasing, it’s something that’s supposed to be playful and friendly. A balance needs to be maintained… too complimentary and you become boring. Too much in the other direction and you’re being an asshole. A number of people may need to practice their calibration before they get the balance just right. If you’ve found that you’ve inadvertently offended someone, apologize and offer a sincere compliment, and dial the disqualifications back in intensity.

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