Break your worst dating habits

Do you find yourself dating the same people over and over again? Watch out for these bad dating habits and keep your love life on track. True, they may not look exactly like your last lover, but inevitably, the relationship follows the same pattern. Here’s the interesting thing: it’s really not so much about the person you’re actually dating, but more about how you choose the person you date.
We grow-up watching all of our role models interact—parents, uncles & aunts, even older siblings—learning how we too should act in a relationship. We’re A+ students following their lead. Now, before you pick-up the phone to have a heart-to-heart with your nearest n’ dearest, consider this little reality check: these folks aren’t responsible for your choices. Maybe it’choices. Maybe it’s time you examined why you keep following the same worn dating habits…

Friends & Lovers

We join running groups; endure hours of ballroom dancing lessons; celebrate good food in the company of strangers and even submit to blind dates all in the hope of ending our search for the one. What if I told you there wasn’t just one? There might be several people out there perfect for you! In fact, you may have already met your love match.
We’re raised dreaming about fairytale romances where the prince rushes in to swoop-up his awaiting…and often…distressed princess. Of course, it’s alwayslove at first sight. Some of us buy into these myths, and in the process let our real soul mate—often the person standing right next to us—slip away.
Do you have a close male or female friend? Someone you trust, who shares your confidences, makes you laugh and who nine times out of 10 you hang-out with on Friday night? Why aren’t you dating this person? What is it about them that didn’t let get them past the dating cut?
Unfortunately, there isn’t a clear-cut recipe for finding love. Some of the best, most enduring relationships start with a friendship that blooms into a secure, committed partnership. Next time you’re online chatting with that “close” friend—give them a second look. You never know what could happen…

Board Games, Not Mind Games

Who doesn’t love a good game; especially one where you pretend you’re someone else? But engaging in game playing with a potential date is dangerous. Especially if you might want to spend more than a date or two with that certain someone.
We may play it “cool” not letting our date know we’re really interested in them. Sometimes this means ignoring a phone call for a couple of days, after all it could signal desperation. Or maybe you’re very quiet and shy on your dates because it just wouldn’t do to let that special someone know you’re actually a fun-loving, spontaneous person. After all, what would they think?
Chances are you’ll never know.
Whether your meeting online for the first time or offline for your sixth date, remember your objective: a relationship. How can you make this a reality if you don’t reveal yourself? I am not suggesting you run out and confess all your darkest secrets to your date. Au contraire. But you have to give a little…to get a little. If your date doesn’t seem receptive, isn’t it better to know 15-minutes into a first date than six-months into a relationship?

Emotional Baggage

Although it’s often invisible, we all drag it along behind us: emotional baggage. Whether it’s a broken heart, a failed marriage or emotional stuff from way back we promise ourselves that never will we be hurt this way again. Fair enough, there are a lot of good lessons we can learn from our past relationships. Just make sure your past isn’t tainting your present perspective.
If you have a task list of the “do’s” and “don’ts” for your next relationship—write them down. Take a good hard look at your expectations. Are they realistic? Do they reflect how you feel about yourself or a potential date? Evaluate this list and modify it again. Set yourself up to meet the perfect person. Who knows they just might help lighten the load…

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You’ve likely all experienced the reaction when you tell friends and family you’ve taken your love life online. It’s surprise, usually thinly coated with a veil of anxiety and concern. After all, you never know who you’re really dating when you meet online.

Fact is, the same could be said for anyone you meet. You never know the real person until you spend some real time together. But in the high stakes game of online love, there are some solutions for having fun, exploring the dating world and still playing it safe.

Here are a few dating tips to help you meet your perfect match

• The Dirt is in the Details

  Before you head-out for that first date, leave all the particulars (meeting place, date time, cell phone number) with a friend. Better yet, leave them your date’s information (full name, phone number) too. If you’re particularly anxious, get your friend to do a check-in call 30-minutes into the date.

• Go Public:

  It doesn’t matter how smitten you are with your date, never head for an intimate dinner to their place on date one. Take it public and schedule a coffee date, gallery opening, brunch…whatever you want as long as it’s in a public place.

• The Air of Mystery

  Don’t share intimate details about your life with a new date. In particular, it’s wise not to reveal your home phone number, address or too much personal information. If your date continues to dig for this information, politely tell them you’re not comfortable revealing this much detail. Lighten the mood by saying you prefer an air of mystery.

• Too Good to be True

  Like most of us, you have some idea who you’re looking for in a date. If you’ve been exchanging email with this dreamy date, and they seem to be everything you could ever want, be cautious. Generally, when something or someone seems to be too good to be true, it’s often the case. Take a step back, evaluate the situation and skip the in-person get together. Instead, opt for a phone date and see how you feel about the other person.

• Make a Phone Date

  Take the time to get know your date. Ask what he/she likes or wants, explore their routine, hobbies, interests, ask some probing (but not too nosy!) questions about their personal history. Information is key. Discover what makes them tick and see how you feel during these conversations. If you get any red flags about their behaviour, attitudes or comments it may be time to move onto the next date.

• You Hit it Off

  There’s chemistry, your date is amazingly witty, intelligent and remarkably, you feel safe with him/her. Before you fall into this lure of false security, inviting your new soul mate for a coffee back at your place, think again. You don’t really know this person and by taking this next step, you could be putting yourself in a very dangerous situation. If he/she is as wonderful as you think, you will see them again. Save the cozy coffee until you have a more complete picture of the situation.

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